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tapireye:

Hairstyling by Mitsuki Jurk.

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headspace-hotel:

headspace-hotel:

I have been observing things about relationships. while I think resolving conflicts the (stereotypical) Redneck Way like some of my kinfolks, by beating up or shooting people, is definitely bad, resolving conflicts the opposite of the Redneck Way like other acquaintances I have come to know, where everyone talks openly about Boundaries and Communication but disagreement, anger, or boundary-enforcing are so uncomfortable that conflicts plink their way through a maze of gossip and conversations in closed pools before getting resolved through unexplained ghosting or ignored through manipulation and grudge-holding, is also bad

people who think that yelling is always bad have the worst relationship skills. If you can envision enforcing boundaries through politely saying “no” but can’t imagine yelling at someone, the concept of boundaries hasn’t quite been applied yet

What i’m saying is, if I was being assaulted, I would hit someone. That is in my toolbox at all times. The goal isn’t to completely eliminate aggression from your toolbox, it’s to communicate well enough that aggression isn’t your only tool, and people KNOW long, long before they reach your Danger Zone

when you can’t say “no” but you can punch someone, you end up killing your brother accidentally over a donut.

When you can say “no” politely but you can’t raise your voice or be a little bit of a bitch or whatever is needed, you either don’t have a Danger Zone (bad!) or don’t know where your Danger Zone is (bad!)

a lot of people function that way and they have interactions that leave them feeling uncomfortable and disrespected but they don’t really do anything about it until a line is crossed that potentially neither person really knew was there, and the only solution those people can think of is to end the relationship or cast the other person as a horrible person or whatever

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Stormy Weather ~ Leonard Koscianski

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coyotebabe-deactivated20230727:

why does gopuff have the option to share your order? as if i wanna tell all my friends im ordering 6 double decker oatmeal creme pies, a pint of ice cream, and a 2 liter of pineapple fanta at 7 in the morning